why marriages not successful nowadays

  There are always beautiful lines written on wedding cards :Marriages are settled in heaven and celebrated on earth.These words are not only words but there is deep meaning hidden in them.

In past, society was male dominated and males were sole bread earner of a house.women were dominated by them and she was totally dependent on her husband even for her  little needs.Marriages were successful and there were no clashes.The life was smooth and there was no stress in life as needs were few and  even little means sufficed.

Woman was not given her due respect and she was deprived of  her basic rights like right to education,right of expression etc.Many social reformers have worked hard for the rights of women and after sheer struggle and fight they succeeded in their mission for welfare of women.Women started to gain education and with passage of time she no more remained  confined to boundaries of house. 

Nowadays women are equal to men in all spheres of life .They are sharing the responsibilities of family and are economically dependent.Now she being economically dependent and is much aware of her rights.She herself can choose her life partner who can come up to her expectations .Love marriages are somehow successful as two like minded people themselves agree to lead a life according to their own choice.

But has not the  graph of success rate of successful marriages  fallen categorically?.....that is the major issue our society  is facing today. The marriages are leading to divorces .The major cause behind it is that women are no longer dependent on her counterpart rather they are capable to contribute.Male dominated society  still  does not recognize the importance of women. The stress of job and Ego clash is the biggest reason for broken relations.

We cannot blame males only and make them responsible for break up rather in few cases women themselves are not ready to compromise.They are much egoistic and crush the self esteem of her husbands.Such women prefer carrier to their home.They do not want addition to their family as they are only carrier concious and ambitious.This is also well established reason behind failure of marriages of modern society.  

Though social reformers have played vital role for freedom of women yet according to my opinion mushrooming NGOs for women empowerment are also playing active role for break ups.At some places women are only responsible for conflicts but due to undue privilege to women sometimes injustice is caused and marriages are broken.

At last I would like to say that both male and females are pillars of a family and they should remember  that any crack may lead to collapse of building.Therefore  women themselves can resolve the petty issues to save the relations as by nature she is more logical and patient.on the other hand husband and society must understand the pain and  honour feelings of women .Then only marriages will be successful and and nation will grow.

written by 

Nisha  
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Life..............unfolded mystry

 Life may appear a small word of four letters but the whole universe is void without it.
numerous scholars,religious gurus and philosphers have sacrificed their lives to find out its meaning.Some may have experienced self realization but in my opinion life has different meaning for every human being.
Life may appear easy to someone while others may find it as challenging as walking on naked sword.
It is our outlook and perception that gives us different meanings of life.Though life is challenging and it is not a bed of thorns yet one must understand that success falls in the lap of those who work hard and are ready for any tough and challenging task.
Life is like pilgrimage and it leads us to destination and throughout the life time we try to find path to attain the goal .Life is very beautiful indeed it gives us chance to show our devotion,sacrifice for society.Life will become meaningful only when we will set a goal and will work hard to achieve the goal .Our will power should be strong like himalayas which can stand even if there are tempests.Without any goal we are like beasts and will perish unnoticed like dogs and cats.Although everyone cannot be a Napolean yet we can set small goals so that the purpose of life is fullfilled.
Life is very beautiful gift of god who has enabled to explore the encyclopedia.  


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wow gonna are those daz

Although I have started the  journey  of my life half century ago and passing through various stations and junctions  I have relished sweeter and bitter experiences of this life.Whenever I get some time to sit in solitude, the most enchanting memories of my  childhood enthrall me and when I see nowadays kids laden with books my heart feels soared.

Some of the incidents of my childhood  are glued to my memory bank  and I would like to share . My contemporaries would recall there childhood  with me whereas youngsters would  feel amused.

*I remember the summer days when mother used to have a nap in afternoon after day routine and wanted us not to go out in sun and literally w waited till she slept sound and along with my eldy sis with silent walk slipped out and used to enjoy so called madari walas  tricks coins coming out of the body of boy from here n there,

*a very interesting incident is I wanna share,during summer vacations me and my elder sister visited my maternal uncles place and my sis wanted live sparrows to keep alongwith.When we departed for our home my mamma gifted  a pack wrapped with cotton and told it contains sparrows in it  and asked her to open only when u reach outskirts of their village .My sis was so happy to have what she wanted and all the time kept gift in her hand very carefully.i still remember her loud screams she made when she opened the wrap which had nothing but  a big joke my uncle made.

*used to play till dawn ihn the street and only after dark we approached our houses.

*even neighbours were close knit and no tension of studies there.If any house had construction the whole vanar sena of kids transported the building material within no time can we expect same from this generation kids.

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