why marriages not successful nowadays

  There are always beautiful lines written on wedding cards :Marriages are settled in heaven and celebrated on earth.These words are not only words but there is deep meaning hidden in them.

In past, society was male dominated and males were sole bread earner of a house.women were dominated by them and she was totally dependent on her husband even for her  little needs.Marriages were successful and there were no clashes.The life was smooth and there was no stress in life as needs were few and  even little means sufficed.

Woman was not given her due respect and she was deprived of  her basic rights like right to education,right of expression etc.Many social reformers have worked hard for the rights of women and after sheer struggle and fight they succeeded in their mission for welfare of women.Women started to gain education and with passage of time she no more remained  confined to boundaries of house. 

Nowadays women are equal to men in all spheres of life .They are sharing the responsibilities of family and are economically dependent.Now she being economically dependent and is much aware of her rights.She herself can choose her life partner who can come up to her expectations .Love marriages are somehow successful as two like minded people themselves agree to lead a life according to their own choice.

But has not the  graph of success rate of successful marriages  fallen categorically?.....that is the major issue our society  is facing today. The marriages are leading to divorces .The major cause behind it is that women are no longer dependent on her counterpart rather they are capable to contribute.Male dominated society  still  does not recognize the importance of women. The stress of job and Ego clash is the biggest reason for broken relations.

We cannot blame males only and make them responsible for break up rather in few cases women themselves are not ready to compromise.They are much egoistic and crush the self esteem of her husbands.Such women prefer carrier to their home.They do not want addition to their family as they are only carrier concious and ambitious.This is also well established reason behind failure of marriages of modern society.  

Though social reformers have played vital role for freedom of women yet according to my opinion mushrooming NGOs for women empowerment are also playing active role for break ups.At some places women are only responsible for conflicts but due to undue privilege to women sometimes injustice is caused and marriages are broken.

At last I would like to say that both male and females are pillars of a family and they should remember  that any crack may lead to collapse of building.Therefore  women themselves can resolve the petty issues to save the relations as by nature she is more logical and patient.on the other hand husband and society must understand the pain and  honour feelings of women .Then only marriages will be successful and and nation will grow.

written by 

Nisha  
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